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Elayne & Benjamin

May 24, 2026 • Ukiah, CA

Elayne & Benjamin

May 24, 2026 • Ukiah, CA

👗 The Wedding Style Guide

Vibe: California Chic Wedding Colors: Soft Blush, Sage Green, Champagne, & Earth Tones


We want you to look and feel your best! Our wedding is a blend of rustic ranch beauty and elegant romance. We will be outdoors on grass and gravel, and the temperature will shift from warm sun to crisp evening air.

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While there is no strict dress code, we would love for you to join us in reflecting our wedding's aesthetic California Chic—elegant, refined, and relaxed, fitting a beautiful outdoor setting.


For Ladies

Recommended Look: Midi or maxi dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or elegant pant suits.

Fabrics: Light and breathable materials like chiffon, silk, lace, or high-quality crepe.

Color Guidance: Not required but we encourage soft pastels, floral prints, and earth tones (e.g., champagne, sage, dusty rose, terracotta) to complement the setting.

Footwear (Crucial): Block heels, wedges, or embellished sandals are required. Stilettos are not recommended as they will sink into the grass and gravel.

Evening Layer: Bring a warm wrap, blazer, or jacket, as the evening air is crisp.


For Gentlemen

Recommended Look: A full suit or dress separates (sport coat/blazer with dress slacks/chinos).

Ties: Optional. An open collar is perfectly acceptable.

Colors: Not required but we recommend lighter colors such as tan, light grey, slate blue, or sage green.

Footwear: Leather loafers, oxfords, or clean dress boots.

Please Avoid: Tuxedos (you will overheat), shorts, T-shirts, and jeans.

EVENT-SPECIFIC DRESS CHEATSHEET

Welcome Reception: Dressy Casual: Nice dark jeans are okay; jacket optional

Ukiah Unwind: Poolside Brunch: Casual & Swimwear: Don't forget your suit, cover-up, and towel!

Rehearsal Dinner( For Family & Wedding Party Only): California Chic (Playful) :Great time for floral dresses, and blazers without a tie.

Wedding Ceremony & Reception: California Chic (Elegant): Most formal event. See information above.

Goodbye Brunch: Casual / Travel Ready: Comfortable clothes—come as you are!

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